Dorm Living


What To Bring
BED                                            STORAGE                                ELECTRONICS
Pillows (2)                                 Storage Bin                              TV
XL twin sheets (2 sets)            Shoe Rack                                 Lap Top & Bag
XL twin comforter                   Closet Organizers                      USB Drive
XL twin blanket                        Hangers                  Cell Phone
XL twin mattress pad              Laundry Basket                       Calculator
                                                   Detergent & Softener              iPod
BATH                                        Ironing Board & Iron               Camera
Soap                                          Desktop Storage                       Memory Card
Toothpaste                                                                                  Webcam
Toothbrush                              DESK                                         Ethernet Cable
Deodorant                                Planner                                     Surge Protector
Body wash                               Calendar                                    Extension Cord 
Floss                                         Notebooks                                  Gaming System
Mouthwash                              Folders                                      Alarm Clark
Shampoo                                  Pens/Pencils                             
Conditioner                              Highlighters                              OTHERS
Razor                                        Self Stick Notes                         Umbrella
Facial skin Care                       Stapler                                       Duct Tape
Hair dryer                               Scissors                                      Decorations
Hair straightener                   Tape                                            Adhesive Hooks
Towels                                    Binders/divider                        Cleaning Supplies
Washcloths                             Index Cards                                First Aid Kit
Hand Towels                           Dry Erase Board                Full Length Mirror
Shower caddy*                        Printer                                        iHome
Shower Curtain*                     Printer Paper                             Tools
Trash Bin*                               Ink                                               Bike & Lock
Bathroom Rug                        Backpack                                       
Shower Shoes                         Reading Light                               
Kleenex                                     
                                                   
KITCHEN                       
Microwave*
Compact Fridge
Cups & Coffee Mugs
Utensils
Plates/Bowls
Food Storage
Dish Soap
Sponge
Water Filter





-Bedding

            One of the most important things to think about when getting bedding is that many colleges use extra long beds. You can get XL twin sheets at Bed Bath& Beyond, Target, or Walmart around the start of school. You also may have the option to purchase a comprehensive set, which includes sheets, pillow cases, pillows, towels, etc. all in one package. This is very convenient, but watch out, because most of them are not of great quality. You may be much more satisfied taking the time to pick it all out yourself. Also, a good investment would be in some type of padding or egg crate mattress pad, because most of the mattresses in dorm rooms are not very comfortable. It may be a good idea to have an extra set of sheets just in case you do not have time to do laundry or you wore your sheet to a Toga party the night before.
-Bath
            Make Sure to look into what kind of bathroom set up you will have. If you have floor bathrooms you will definitely want to invest in a shower caddy and some shower shoes. However, if you have private bathrooms make sure you get a shower curtain, bath rug, trash bin, and toilet paper. Hair straighteners and blow dryers are personal preferences, but check with your roommate to see if you could share.
-Electronics
            There never seems to be enough outlets, so surge protectors and extension cords will be important. As far as TVs and Gaming Systems go, it is completely up to you and how much entertainment you want. They are both things that you should talk to your roommate about so you don’t have double everything.
-Storage
            Most of Storage is optional, but remember these rooms are usually not very big. The better storage you have the less cluttered your room will seem.
-Desk
            Most of these things you will need at some point or another. You always have the option of borrowing office supplies, but think about what you use on a regular basis. Your school will have printers on campus that you can pay for, but chances are you will use yours a lot.
-Kitchen
            Even if you have a meal plan, you will probably want a microwave and fridge, if they are permitted in your dorm. It is good to have some snacks always accessible. This is another thing that you should coordinate with a roommate.
-Others
            Most dorms will not allow you to put nails or screws in the wall. So one of the best alternatives for decorating your room is the Command Adhesive Strips and hooks. They are strong, but they do not take the paint of the walls, so you will not get those extra fees when it comes time to move out.





Roommates
If you have a piece of duct tape separating your room into half, chances are something went horribly wrong with your roommate!! College is one of the few, or only, times in life where you have to live with a complete stranger.



Getting a Roommate: We have all heard horror stories about roommates, but do not let this deter you. Many people have become great friends with their roommates. If your school offers a compatibility test, I highly recommend taking it. This way you can be paired up with someone who has a similar sleep pattern and level of cleanliness. If your school does not have it and you are really worried, there are websites you can go to do it yourself (roomsurf.com).  It is also wise to think twice before living with a best friend, since being together 24-7 can be a little overwhelming and has ruined a lot of friendships. You may also limit yourself in meeting new people if you do this.

Expectations of Roommates: A lot of students go into the dorm experience assuming that they will be best friends with their roommates. If that does happen, that’s great! But do not think your roommate has to be your best friend. If you have this mentality, you could end up being enemies. You just need to get along well enough to live with each other.

Avoiding the Issues: One of the best things that you can do to avoid issues with your roommate is set aside time at the beginning of the year to make a “roommate agreement.” Let each other know your opinions on things like sharing, bed time, noise level, bathroom usage, and what you find disrespectful. Many people have very different standards and expectations,establishing expectations is a good way to avoid surprises down the road.

Dealing with Issues: Don’t let trivial things ruin your year. I have seen a full roommate war over a box of cheerios and a bed thrown off of a balcony over a bag of trash. Keep things in perspective.  Also, make sure there is open communication. Say your roommate brings someone home and they wake you up, if you do not say something your roommate probably did not think there was an issue and will continue to do it again. If you approach them nicely and address the issue, it could prevent a huge blow up later on.

When to Give Up: Try as hard as you can to make things work. There is a lot of lessons learned and character building in this process. However, there are some people that truly are not compatible and you do not want to be miserable your entire first year. Although, make sure to wait at least a couple of weeks before trying to change roommates. Some things take time and you wouldn’t want to write off a decent roommate and end up with a horrible one. Some campuses also offer mediation services for roommates in disagreement.  Check with your Resident Assistant or First-Year Counselor if you’re in need of these services.